I think you can take certain steps to lessen your worries on this matter, although, depending on your other activities, and the extent of their diversification, you'll never completely convey your nitty gritty wishes for everything. I can also see your similarity to hoarding analogy, but try to keep in mind these things are all material, and if your life is based merely on material possessions, what a sad life indeed. Invest deeply into your life, marriage, friends, and family, and not only will you reap the great benefits of such pleasurable pursuits, and find yourself closer than ever to being happy inside, you will also be closer to yourself and to them, and when such a time as you're contemplating preparedness for ( i doubt anybody ever really knows beforehand when their number's coming up ), your friends and family will already have the answers you want them to have, knowing that you chose to put them ahead of anything material, and spent the extra time together when you had the chance, they'll then know you well enough that any questions about your wishes will be much easier for them to answer
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