Just wait til you start getting some gray.

Just cuz there's some silver on my temples doesn't mean I'm a frail old man. I'm still 6'2" and 2-oh-something, and I can still load a 40" Sony Trinitron in the back of my truck unaided. In fact, having a "helper" screws up my system. Just back up & let me do it my way. Yes I'm straining, but it's 325 friggin pounds. You grabbing it will throw off my technique and together we won't be able to do what I can do by myself.