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corycouch
Before any of you read this and to try not to leave too much out it will be pretty long , this is mainly about parenting, also before the story below I had never been in trouble for anything other than some speeding tickets in my teens and twentys. even though I look the part of a thug or a punk just because of my size I am very humble and have never hit anyone in violence
1st a little background, (what was here was pretty good but I decided to take it out). the local police department has a video of the ex wife jumping a curb at 80 mph. her parents are the kind of people that sit around the kitchen table *****ing about other people instead of fixing their own problems. they have beat down countless ex boyfriends and husbands of their three daughters, all have been divorced at least once. I know the last guy my ex was married to was a good guy. my ex never has been able to keep a job, she even got fired from one her mom was the office manager of and her boss went over her head. also, her dad is pretty much worthless, never been able to keep a job either and finally lucked out on some disability, I knew a few of the guys he worked with before and the common term was useless. my ex and my kids live in this household
This is a personal issue of mine that started back on 2-2-13. I know the older guys on here know about me and my girls. they are both super good kids and really smart especially considering the environment they are in. they don't have any rules, my oldest missed the bus one day and no one even took her to school. my ex has contacted me numerous times saying she couldn't handle her attitude. now to the point, my oldest was running her mouth just like her youngest aunt (snotty is a nice way to explain her) and we was in a argument. I started by sending her to the corner ( I know my 14 year old in a corner) and she said its not like it will matter anyway, I grab her by the arm and push her on the couch, not hard just to the couch,she was still yelling and screaming I pulled her up and spanked her on the butt, she pulled away and , fell, I tell her to get ready and she is going with me to the scrap yard, yelling and screaming still I spanked her twice more on the way to the truck. my 12 year old stayed at home as she wasn't in any trouble. by time we got to the scrap yard we were talking and talking good, I tell her I care about her and only punish her because I want respect and when she grows up she can't act like that, I tell her I don't want her to see her to grow up like me and struggling to get by or end up like her mom(and I left it at that) we were talking good and it was over, on our way to having a good weekend. we get in the truck from getting paid and my exs other ex husband calls me and says whats going on, I said what do you mean and he said my ex said I hit my oldest, I said good grief, about that time 3 police cars pull to the exit of the scrap yard and pull up to one and asked if he was looking for me and he said yes. my youngest had texted her mom about the spanking. while the police were talking to me a JACK@$$ flew up in a truck and the cop said whats this idiot doing and the JACK@$$ jumped outa the truck and said arrest that son of a b!tch, if you've not figured it out yet my ex father in law. soon they are all there telling the police what an ass I am and I beat the kids all the time, ridiculous. remember they lie constantly feeling better about their selves. shorten it up a little I ended up in jail and the last thing I saw in the parking lot was the JACK@$$ shaking the cops hand and smiling.
now jail, im sure some of you have been, some of you have not, I can no longer tell you ive never been. yes sirs and no sirs go along ways and its easy for me as ill say yes sir and mam to everyone in general conversation. the food sucks for the most part but the koolaid is pretty good. I seen guys make potato skin cigarettes, make burittos outa fritos, ramen noodles and spray cheese. I got a head ache the first night and realized it was because I hadn't had caffeine since that morning , the next morning it was gone. my bunk had a good view of the tv and I watched war of the worlds the first night. I try to take something from everything and I did the same with jail, it wasn't bad but that doesn't mean I want to go back. I played several games of chess which I hadn't done since high school, I had one guy beat me on Monday morning other than that I won the rest. one guy came up to me and said your a Christian aren't you and I told him I was raised that way but havnt been to church in years. my name was big guy while I was in there, (when walking by I heard that's one big MF several times) I weigh 260 and when in high school 20+ years ago I was bench pressing 350 and aside from my gut ive acquired im still solid. I never told anyone why I was there but they seemed to think I didn't belong even though I fit in really well while I was there. I ended up staying for 2 nights and steve and dustin scrapped out two cars to make my bail as I had all the money in my wallet and it was locked up at the jail. at this point even though they will never read this I want to thank john henry for picking up my truck for me, joe banks the bondsman which we buy cars from, we didn't use his money but he sped up the process of me getting out, and the police officer who arrested me, he let me make the phone calls I needed to before I went to jail.
when I get out I get served a restraining order from family court against my daughters and my ex wife(I wish that part could stick) in addition to a restraining order for my oldest on criminal charges.
criminal court. when I met my lawyer after I got out of jail I told him the truth start to finish and didn't leave anything out. he didn't seem concerned too much as im sure he has seen it all. I cant prove the following but I know its true, the ex inlaws had a couple months to drill my kids, when my youngest testified her story wasn't even close to the truth making it sound awful, but my lawyer picked it apart, my oldest for the most part told the truth, I felt bad for both of them as they were crying but I do know it had to be done. after we all testified the judge called me up and said he was going to postpone his judgement until after family court, but he lifted his restraining order but informed me the family court order was still in place, I was like whats going on to my lawyer and he was smiling, he said that's the same as a not guilty he just can't say it until after the family court, he said we had a win. the ex in laws were p!ssed and stormed out of the courtroom.
family court was yesterday, I get there early, dustin said he seen my ex outside talking to a lady and the lady said what do you want for me to do and that was all he heard and kept walking. that lady was her lawyer, they tried to get a continuance on theirs and my lawyer said theres no way, he hasn't seen his kids in weeks he wants this to be over with, they knew they didn't have a case against me and was just trying to keep me from my kids for a longer time. they ended up going up front to the judge and having to drop the case which was good and bad for me, as we had saved the best stuff for family court which will remain secret in case I need it in the future.
I was able to drive by my girls house afterthis which I did and I seen the JACK@$$ out of the corner of my eye and I could hear him yelling at me and I just smiled
tomorrow im going to the dreaded house for the first time in a couple months to get my kids, I cant wait to see them and to tell them I love them and im not mad at them for anything, also this coming weekend is mine also you cant imagine how happy I was when I counted up the weeks and it was mine. just wanted to share im sure a few of you have had similar stories in your past thanks for listening cory couch
thank you gangel
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