When i first read this i thought to myself " Kinda gives a whole new meaning to TSS ".
I've been through the mill with my two sons and their teen years. They're grown and out on their own now. They seem to be doing okay.
You know how it is .... people do what they know. No parent is perfect but try to set a good example for them to follow.
Be honest about the mistakes you made when you were first learning about things. There's some part of them that wants to do better than you did.
The teen years are hard. Sometimes you feel like you don't have a friend in the world. As a parent be their rock of Gibraltar. When they're at their very worse look em' square in the eye and say " I love you. "
Compare the way we do things here to the way they do things in other countries. In other places the drinking age is much lower but the kids are taught moderation. It's considered immature to over indulge and act like a fool.
Encourage them to have a little bit of dignity and respect themselves.
It's a hard thing cause teens have their own secret lives and you're not included. They're gonna start making their own choices in things whether you like it or not. The harder you try to control them the more they're apt to fight you and do the opposite thing just to spite you.
Every choice has a consequence. Sometimes the outcome is good and sometimes it's bad. It all depends on how you choose.
It goes a whole lot easier on everybody if they make good choices all on their own.
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