Hey man I feel your pain and loss its aweful. I lost my dad last June 30th . It was sudden and out of the blue he was getting out of the hospital the next day . I was lucky enought to be with him when he died to hold his hand . We were always very close he was my best friend . Im 55 he was 84 and the age doesnt matter its all painful there is never a good time . My family was getting ready for my younger brother to die last June he had colon cancer that spread everywhere before they found it . My brother died two weeks later . I dont know if time heals I hope so . The only real consolation is knowing that and believing that when we leave here we enter a whole new world ,one that we cant comprehend while we are still here . We are all - in this world but we are not of this world . We came from the spirt world before we were born and we return to it . As for the lights Ive been told by a medium the same thing . I also feel my fathers presence quite often and Ive noticed a couple times now when I started to do something that I shouldnt be doing . I seem to have dreams about him .He 's watching out for me . Prob the same with your dad . I start my days on my knees and end them that way . Prayaer and meditation have become a regular thing with me . Just hang in there and believe that he is feeling better and you will both be together again .
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